These are worst birthdays for kids according to moms – and Christmas tops the list
While most parents can't control when their baby arrives into the world, many moms have strong opinions about certain days, especially when it comes to holidays and special anniversaries, according to a new survey.
The poll, conducted recently by parenting company What to Expect, surveyed more than 400 women who are pregnant or have at least one young child. The survey asked participants about dates they would least like their child to be born on.
According to the data, 40% of moms said they would prefer to avoid a Christmas birthday for their children. Other less-than-ideal birthdates included February 29 (Leap Day), New Year's Day and Halloween.
Christmas is worst birthday, according to poll
The survey revealed that December 25 – or Christmas day – makes for the least desirable birthday, according to 40% of moms.
Christmas birthdays topped the list for many reasons.
"Everyone is so busy and stressed the week before Christmas," said one respondent, while some also shared their frustrations about trying to celebrate both Christmas and a birthday simultaneously.
FILE: Girl covers face while wearing Santa hat. (Credit: Getty Images)
Leap Day (February 29), which only occurs once every four years, came in second, with 38% of moms expressing reluctance about a Leap Day birthday.
"It would be cool as an adult," one mom said, "but as a kid, it would be sad not being able to say, ‘Today is my birthday.’"
Other less-than-ideal dates included the anniversary of a family member’s death (26%), January 1 or New Year’s Day (23%), a sibling's birthday (23%) and Halloween (16%).
Despite the drawbacks of certain birthdays, 75% of moms in the survey said they would not request an induction or planned C-section just to avoid a particular birthday.
Solutions to ‘Bad’ birthday dates
While certain birthdates might be less-than-ideal for some, the poll found that 16% of moms didn't dread any of the listed days. Some moms shared positive sentiments, plus tips on how to make these celebrations extra special for a child.
Some suggest celebrating a "half birthday" for children born near a holiday, allowing for a more relaxed and less stressful event. One mom shared how her parents celebrated her December birthday in the summer, holding a fun birthday party with friends. Others recommend splitting the day to celebrate both the holiday and the child’s birthday separately—ensuring no presents were doubled up and keeping the two events distinct.
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"My mom always made sure Christmas and my birthday were separate," said one respondent. "We would do Christmas in the morning and then have birthday celebrations later in the day."
For those worried about sharing their child’s birthday with Christmas, another mom emphasized how family traditions can help make the day feel special.
"I always make sure it feels like a birthday, with decorations and balloons, no matter how close it is to the holidays," she shared.